FAQ
Questions About Connected
Is Connected therapy?
No. Connected is a guided, experiential relationship-building program created by therapists, but separate from their psychotherapy practices. It focuses on learning, practice, coaching, and community rather than mental health diagnosis or treatment.
Is Connected a dating or matchmaking service?
No. Connected does not match participants for romantic relationships. Participants are paired for practice—not matched for dating.
Who is the program for?
Connected is for adults who hope to build a lasting relationship and are open to practicing connection in a new way. Some participants can get first dates but find that those dates rarely develop into an ongoing relationship. Others have very little dating experience and want guided practice before they begin dating.
What is paired practice?
Paired practice is a three-month learning partnership with another participant, with repeated opportunities to try new ways of connecting and receive ongoing coaching.
Will I be expected to date the person I'm paired with?
No. Your pairing is a structured practice partnership, not a romantic match. There is no expectation of romantic or physical involvement.
How long is the program, and what is the weekly time commitment?
The program begins with three four-hour workshops, each followed by a Social Night. Several weeks of introductory partner meetings are followed by three months of paired practice and weekly coaching.
How are groups and practice pairs organized?
The first cohort is designed for heterosexual participants. Men and women learn in parallel groups and meet during Social Nights. Grouping and pairings are informed by the intake conversation, goals, participant preferences, age range, life stage, and overall fit.
What age range is Connected designed for?
The first Connected cohort is designed primarily for adults approximately 26–45. Participants may be organized into groups based on age, life stage, dating experience, and overall group fit, with some flexibility around chronological age. Future cohorts are expected to serve a wider range of ages.
How is feedback handled?
Feedback is introduced gradually, with care and guidance. Especially at the beginning, most feedback is explored during coaching sessions.
What happens after I complete the program?
The Connected Social Club is reserved exclusively for program graduates, who may attend optional ticketed events based on their interests and availability.